To Many Angry Black Women

To Many Angry Black Women.

             There is only one way to start this and that is to simply ask a 

very important question?  Why are we black women so angry, how come we take our angry out on the people around us, and most of all how come we take our angry out on our black men?  Angry is in our eyes, it's in our voice in our body language , it's in how we love and it's in our posture, it's in our homes and angry is in our walk we have so much of it we don't even see it's in how we dress ourselves and how we cover up our onw hair with other people hair?

      While looking at this YouTube hearing  black women say what makes them angry is sad because she fells not wanted, and that no one really has her back she feels all alone and the life struggle is put on her.  Most black women feel unappreciated and what ever she dose it's just not good enough.  She is yet trying to fit in she thought long ago if I put on the long straight blonde hair she would be except so, she thought that this would cause her black man to love her even more now that her hair is like the white woman's hair, but this didn't work as you know more and more black men are going to other nationality of women, Caucasian women, Hispanic and Oriental women and Arabian women and so forth on, she is yet at the bottom unwanted by black men and not just black men but other nationality of men of other races over look her as well.

       This is no new story "oh how I whish it was" but let's not talk about how angry and hurt we are  we, never really talk about the solution to our angry.  I guess the real question is do we have the answer and are we willing to face our truth, yes our truth as to why come, and how come.  If I have to put on someone else hair for him to love me and except me then I must ask myself  "do I love me and do I except myself"?  If that's the case and most of the time it is then we black women hate ourselves and we don't have honor for us as black women.  We have lost our respect, you see it in our clothing how we dress, we leave nothing for the man's imagination, you hear it in our conversation when we talk to one another when we say "BITCH" I don't like this in fact I heat it!    I'm not a female dog I'm a woman with integrity, morals and values.  We talk crazy to our children and put all of that poison in their hearts.  We must stop pointing fingers at others and point them at our self's and learn to deal with the truth, until we weak up and get healed from our broken mind set of everyone has left us we will never be free and healed.  

        Let's face it a lot of us have not had father to validate us only mama who's angry her self!  She's angry because she feels that know one is there for her and she had to do it all by her self.     

Mama didn't know how to pick a good man that could be a father to the children that they created together.  We end up repeating cycles from one generation to the next one you would think by now we would be tired.  How can she love you when she don't love herself, how can she help you when she can't help herself what can she give to you that has been stripped from her so long ago, and we are just now seeing it in the milliennium young black women.  She has forgotten, in the word of God it tells us that older women should teach the younger I don't think that the older black women are teaching any more.  There is a great level of disrespect a cross the bored I, want us to have a future as black women so let's examine ourselves and take ownership in what we have allowed to happen we must work on getting healthy mentally use your brain and not your body for everything it's time to grow up right,  and show the world we are just as much as any other woman form any other race!