None Of Them Got Daddies pt 3

None Of Them Got Daddies pt 3

      There is still so much to be said about this, "NONE OF THEM GOT DADDIES"   is this the oldest thing around, do we really care are we concerned about our future concerning our children,  is there any way we can make life better for our future as a people dose the black woman care, dose the black man care anymore about them self as a human race, or how much longer will we go on devaluing one another dose love, honor , respect, morals, values, discipline and carriage and having accountability or even strength exist in us, will the man be at fault or will the woman be at fault after it's all said and done the majority of them don't even see that we all have been lied to and so much have been stolen form us as a people!                             None Of Them Got Daddies well for the most part of it, that's  what the other race of people say when they look at us.

     Let's see who is to blame or should we even place blame at all, well if we are going to deal with truth, I believe that there is definitely someone to blame, but it's not who you may think is at fault.  Black woman it is not the black man he is not the one to blame and it is most certainly not his fault, and black man the black woman is not the one to blame nor is she at fault as well.   Our ancestors were taken from their culture and their country their native land and brought to a civilization that was not in their favor,  it worked against them, and even today it is yet working against us.  Because "None Of  Them Got Daddies",  it's the same old song over and over again.  Our ancestors were brought up to raise families that would worship and serve Elohim, God and teach their children about His word, His love and His family.  There was a time when the black woman knew her place and she knew who she was, but when they took them and brought them over to this county that we all called the great America the land of the free.  She the black woman was broken he the black man was broken and stripped in their minds,  man and woman both broken in ways we have yet to recover from.  Treat them like you treat a horse take them out  of their natural environment break their minds but keep the body in good shape to use.  Take the black male out of the family out of the house, and put her in a position of not knowing who she is she, will feel the need to protect and she will always look to us to take care of her.  None Of Them Got Daddies is it a boy or is it a girl is it twins who is the daddy where is he do she even know?   I mean really after 5 or 8 children you yet don't know who the father is?
 

     When will we take a stand for who we are, can we take a stand that's hard huh?  I mean for us to take a stand,  for who we are in fact it's funny because the sad part is that we yet don't know who we are, so how can we take a stand?   What ever they tell us that's what it is,  right?  We think the way they want us to think we fell the way they want us to fell  and we most certainly do what they expect us to do!  This thing right here has gone on in my family far too long I'm sick of it, it hurts so bad to look at my children and my grandchildren and my nieces and nephews and see 3 different generations and yet "None Of Them Got Daddies",  is it a curse?  Maybe for the most part it is, the women in my family we wanted fathers for our children and I know that other black women wanted father's for their children, but so many of us didn't and don't know what a father looks like, and fells like we don't know the meaning of it at all!  We think just having a man around is all right,  it's enough.   I have a questions to ask?   What if he's not ready to be a daddy, what if he's not ready to keep a job, what if he don't know who he is, what if he has someone else, what if he still lives at home with his mother and what if he already have children by other women that he don't take care of, do you think you will make any difference to him, or do you think your the one that can change his mind that your  getting pregnant by him will make things better for him?   The answer is "NO WAY"  you are just adding to the "None Of Them Got Daddies moment".    This daddy issue came form white men our ancestor slave masters taking the black man out of the family, and when the white man  would come into the slave home and sleep with the black women right in front of her black man, her (HUSBAND)  while they
 degrading and disrespecting both of them,  most of the time a child would be create out of this "Great Dishonorable Tragedy"............So this becomes a way of life for us, that didn't originate from us this was forced on our ancestors, and now it's in our blood line all over the mighty
  America the land of the free has mad us bound to a movement that has labeled a race of people  letting the whole world know that "NONE OF THEM GOT DADDIES".   It's high time for us and long over dude don't we as a people want respect and honor it's time for us to have accountability it's time for us to be responsible but that will only happen when we learn about us and love us as a people. We must take back what they stole form us, they even stole our God form us and told us that being a good salve would be a blessing for us and we believed every word and even today we believed their words.  Now I'm not a prejudice person, I just want my people to know who they are and love one another.  Black Women love your Black Man and Black Men love your Black Women and lets work hard against "NONE OF THEM GOT DADDIES" movement.  We still have time to get it right.